Angående att ta ansvar för sina egna känslor i en relation, att veta vad en vill ha och behöver i en relation, eller att över huvud taget behöva ha en relation för att anses 'hel':
"We believe/.../ that the fundamental sexual unit is one person; adding more people to that unit may be intimate, fun, and companionable but does not complete anybody. The only thing in this world that you can control is yourself - your own reactions, desires, and behaviors. Thus, a fundamental step in ethical sluthood is to bring your locus of control into yourself, to recognize the difference between your 'stuff' and other people's; when you do this, you become able to complete yourself - that's why we call this 'integrity.'"
- Dossie Easton och Janet W.Hardy, The Ethical Slut, sid 25
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